Friday, May 8, 2009

Getting your ex back, tips to consider.

Getting back together with your ex may seem easy or not but to go about it, you have to be tactical. If you really want to get back with your ex, there are some factors you should consider.

1. Come to term with the breakup. Couples have fights and split all the time, so having a break up is not a new phenomenon. It is part of the process of finding the right person for you. So you have to come to terms with the fact that it has happened and deal with that.

2. Think about the reason for the break up. Think through thoroughly about the reason for the breakup. Was it a fight or a misunderstanding? Is it something that can be resolved? Did you cheat on your partner or your partner cheated on you? Are you willing to forgive your partner or yourself and forget? Do you want your ex back because you love him or don’t want to be alone.

3. Work on yourself. Think back on the reasons why your partner was attracted to you, are you still that same person? Do you still take time out to look great?

4. First impression matters. As it is said you should always try to make a good first impression. That applies to this situation. The things you say to him/her matters a lot. Don’t beg or sound like if he/she does not come back to you, you are better of dead. Say what you want and confidently.

5. Take advantage of the past. Take advantage of past events that made him/her say good things about you. Met at a place where you love to hang out, wear an outfit that he loves, and remind him/her of lovely memories you shared.

Try these few steps and you sure are on your way to getting your ex back.

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